Nobody plans for this part of life. When you got married, you were thinking about a home, maybe kids, weekend trips, a future. Divorce was never on the list. And yet here you are, sitting with your phone, typing something you never imagined typing. Take a breath. You are not the first person to go through this, and you will not be the last. But there is one decision in this whole process that will quietly shape everything else: the lawyer you choose. Let's talk about that hon